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PARTLY HEARTLESS

  FORGET IT, FORGIVE IT, MOVE ON! The story of love is very strange. It's very tough to be lucky with love, the intentions, the desires, the interests everything will be highly variant in most relationships, the idea of soul sparking romance is also rare. How most of it ends will see the stage where he/she will tell they couldn’t stop thinking about you, that he compared every woman with you, and that he wanted to give us a second chance. But then he tells you he was too scared to fully commit to me and that he wasn’t sure what he wanted. In my case, I was surprised. I thought he came to me because he knew that he wanted to be with me, but he didn’t. He was confused. I told him he should figure out what he wanted before hurting someone. I was devastated. I loved him so much. I was still waiting for him because I had hope. I was still waiting for that second chance. I was left with a big hole in my heart and a turbulent, uncontrollable mind. If you’ve also had to accept that someone...

What Remain?

Did you ever think about what it really matters in life? Even though few of us do know the sour truth do we acknowledge it?   That's because we live in a culture that places a high premium on external measures of success. As a society we value appearances that fall within our unrealistic standards of  beauty , pride ourselves on being constantly busy, and seem to be constantly striving to make more money or have nicer things. There is nothing wrong with being ambitious-but often I think that we mistakenly equate some of these external achievements with experiencing greater  happiness . We are into “hedonic adaptation,” where people quickly become used to external changes (good or bad), and return to their basic state of happiness.  We have all experienced this on reaching an external goal-only to realize that once we have achieved a goal, often we simply move on to the next one or raise the benchmark of how we define success. Same is with love as well, we ...